Headshots
Charlottesville Headshots: How to Prepare for a Personal Branding Session

Most people meet your headshot before they meet you. It sits at the top of your LinkedIn, your company bio, the conference program, the podcast guest list. People decide how to feel about you in about a second, and your photo is doing all the talking.
That is a lot of pressure for one image, which is exactly why people freeze up about it. The good news is that a strong headshot is mostly preparation, not luck. Here is everything I tell clients before a headshot and personal branding session.
What to wear
The job of your clothes is to stay quiet so your face does the work. Solid colors, good fit, simple lines.
- Choose solid colors over patterns. Patterns, especially tight stripes and small checks, can distract or even shimmer on camera. A solid jewel tone or a clean neutral keeps the focus on you.
- Fit matters more than brand. Clothes that fit your shoulders and neck cleanly read as polished. Anything baggy reads as bigger; anything tight reads as uncomfortable. If you have one blazer that fits perfectly, that is your headshot blazer.
- Mind the neckline. A defined neckline, a collar, a structured blazer, a crew that sits right, frames your face. Loose, droopy necklines pull the eye down.
- Bring layers. A jacket on then off gives us two distinctly different looks from one setup. That flexibility is worth a lot.
Bring two or three options on hangers and we will choose together. I would always rather have too many than too few.
Groom the day before, not the morning of
Big changes right before a shoot tend to backfire. If you cut your hair, do it about a week out so it has time to settle and look like you. Same with anything on skin.
For the day of, keep it simple. Rest the night before, because the camera sees tired eyes before you do. Drink water. Men, decide on your facial hair and tidy it the morning of. Anyone wearing makeup, go a touch more defined than your everyday look since the camera softens it, but stay recognizably yourself. Bring your glasses if you wear them; we can manage reflections, and a photo without your glasses will not feel like you.
Decide what your headshot is for
A corporate headshot and a personal branding session are not the same thing, and knowing which you need shapes everything.
A clean corporate headshot is one polished look against a simple background. It works for a team page or a directory where everyone needs to feel consistent.
A personal branding session is wider. We build a small library, different outfits, a few settings, some shots looking at the camera and some working candids, so you have images for your website, your social posts, a press feature, a speaker bio, and your next launch. Founders, coaches, realtors, and creatives usually want this because they are feeding many platforms, not filling one slot.
If you are not sure which fits, tell me what you actually need the photos for and I will point you to the right one.
How to look relaxed when you feel anything but
This is the part people dread, and it is the part I handle for you. You do not need to know how to pose. Guiding you is my whole job.
A few things genuinely help:
- We talk, you do not pose. Stiff comes from concentrating on holding a pose. So we have a conversation, and I catch the real expressions in between. The best frame is often right after you laugh, not during.
- Loosen your jaw and breathe out. Tension lives in the jaw and shoulders. A slow exhale before each set resets your face.
- The eyes carry it. A genuine expression starts in the eyes. I will get you thinking about something real, and your eyes will do the rest.
- Move a little. Shifting your weight, turning your shoulder, stepping in, all of it loosens you up far more than holding still.
By the time we are a few minutes in, almost everyone forgets to be nervous. The people who swear they are not photogenic are usually the ones grinning at the back of the camera by the end.
When to update your headshot
A good rule is every two to three years, or whenever you no longer look like your photo. New role, rebrand, big change in appearance, or a photo that is clearly a decade old, all good reasons to refresh. An outdated headshot quietly undercuts your credibility, especially if you meet people in person who were expecting someone else.
If you lead a team, consistent headshots across everyone make the whole company look sharper and more established. We can shoot a team in one session with a shared look.
Frequently asked questions
What should I wear for a professional headshot? Solid colors, well-fitted clothing, a defined neckline, and a layer you can add or remove. Skip busy patterns and large logos. Bring a few options and we will choose together.
How long does a headshot session take? A focused single-look headshot is quick, often under an hour. A personal branding session with multiple outfits and setups runs longer. I will tell you what to expect when we plan it.
I am not photogenic. Can you still get a good shot? Yes, and I hear this constantly. Feeling unphotogenic almost always means nobody has guided you before. I direct the whole session, so you never have to guess what to do with your hands or your face.
Can you photograph our whole team? Yes. I shoot teams with a consistent look so your bios and website feel cohesive. Reach out with your headcount and timeline.
Want headshots that actually look like you on your best day? Book a headshot session and let us plan it.
Arnel Gonce
Portrait Photographer, Charlottesville VA
Arnel Gonce is a portrait photographer in Charlottesville, Virginia. She photographs headshots, families, seniors, maternity, boudoir, and her signature Fabulous Over 50 sessions, guiding every client from first nerves to final gallery so the camera catches them at their most confident.
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